Are you really living?

Are you really living?

It’s a simple question.. but, many would pause and think when asked this question..

Some would say yes immediately.. “Of course, am living.. I have a big job at this big company.. Or.. I am going to happy hour this evening to live.. I have this and this..

But, are you really living?

Or, are you just EXISTING?

Do you find happiness in material stuffs ? Do you find joy only when you go out or when you are with your friends?

Are you able to stay alone and feel peaceful? Feel inner happiness? Feel alive without being dependent on anyone and anything?

Do you often say.. I’ll do that when I get a better job.. or take care of my health afterwards.. I’ll be happy when I’ll have enough money.. ?

It’s good to have a vision and future goals.. but, if you forget to be happy in your present and cherish what you have right now; you’ll keep on chasing and chasing happiness..

Don’t let your life becomes a routine πŸ™‚
Don’t be like everyone else
Be different
Be unique

Don’t settle for less that you deserve, that’s what everyone does
Become the best version of yourself!

Learn to be happy with yourself, with your flaws, your body
No matter what people say about you; you know that you’re awesome
and, that’s more than enough

Don’t fall in the society’s trap..

Create your own world.. Your own adventures.. Love.. Live.. like really live..

So – ask yourself this :

Are you really living?

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It's Time To Really Wake Up & Live

Two-months back, I got a big break for my career – a new responsibility.
It was awesome; it was what I wanted, a new challenge so that I could push myself to being limitless.

So, I told myself that I would give my everything to learning this new role and be awesome in it..my everything…

I indulged myself into trainings and shadowing and learning everything about my new responsibilities. I was always on stress & tension because I didn’t want to screw things up. For two whole months, my work became my everything. I stopped doing my other things like writing, going on adventures; you know things that actually bring you inner happiness.
It was like this because I thought that if I dedicated my mind to something else other than this new role, this would disrupt my focus and decrease my productivity.
Eventually, as time passed by, my work took over my mind and my creative side got blocked. I felt zero connection with the universe and like my intuition stopped talking to me.
So, basically it was like my left side of my brain took over my mind and my right side got lost.
But, I said, it’s fine, the creativity will come back. This new responsibility is much more important than anything.

I kicked ass at work, I worked hard, I worked smart, for very long hours.
And, I proved myself & to everyone that it was not a bad decision to take me for this new role.

I felt good about myself that I have achieved this…for like 5 minutes. Then, I felt like complete crap.

Yups, I felt like shit πŸ™‚

Why? Because looking back over those two-months, I saw myself grinding and working my ass off to impress the boss and not let anyone say that I wasn’t good enough for the role; which I accomplished.
But, I also lost weight because I was always skipping lunch to get the work done; I felt physically & mentally tired; I became to a point that I no longer wanted to look at my computer screen and I was waiting to the weekend to sleep..
Yeah… I became like the rest of the world.. zombies.. I had stopped living, I was only EXISTING.

Sure, I got more bucks – awesome.. getting more money is always awesome.. but, for what ?

For Fuck’s sake.. for what?

Yayyy.. I got more bucks and more responsibilities at work, but I was no longer inline with the vibration of the universe. I no longer loved myself.

That sucks.. like real bad..

I looked at some of my colleagues; when I first started working, I said – Nopes, am not gonna end up like them, people who work for the weekends. But, I did become like them..

And, all of a sudden, I didn’t like who I’ve become.. That’s not good at all..

We have to balance our life.. Work.. Career.. Money.. it’s awesome to have those in life.. But, the other aspects of our life are important too.. Health, experiences, connection, friendship, love..
What’s the use of having a little more money in life if we don’t have life experiences? If we do not have someone real to come back home to? Or, simply we neglected our health and now, we look like crap?

It’s not worth it.. πŸ™‚

We can’t just give Only ONE aspect of our life our everything.
We have to give & receive in all aspects of our life..

Don’t say, let me work a lot this year, then next year when I have so much of money, then I’ll start living life like I want.. How do you know you gonna live till next year?

Start balancing.. Start to celebrate all your little wins, and not wait for the big ones to pop up the champagne… Go on that nature walk.. Stop saying “I have to work tonight, I’ll go out with my friends next week” and then, you never get the time & energy to actually go out.

It’s time to stop existing & really LiveΒ 

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If You Change Nothing ; Nothing Will Change

Last week, I got sick.
It was a bad flu – Lost my voice and stuffs that happen when you get sick.

That’s not the worst part or the point..

The worst part was that it decreased my productivity at work, my brain stopped working as it had to be, I got less smart.

That Sucks!Β 

We all hate being sick..
Am not talking about the people who actually love getting sick, to escape from work.
Am talking about people who actually love to live, instead of just being exist.. people like us.. like me..

We hate being sick.. We want More Money..
Our dream Job.. We want..
Good Food.. The best relationship.. We Want.. Our soulmate.. that our business flourishes..
We want success.. Good health.. to be Fit always.. more energy..
We want lots of things.. we want the best.. the best of everything.. like you know – those people who have like everything..

Ah.. so many thing we want.. I want those things too..

Here’s the thing – I know I get sick often & I know also that in order to have a better health, I had to take care of myself.
But, did I?
Nopes.Β 

Did I change something in my daily life to contribute to a better health?
No, I didn’t… and, the cycle continued..

The same applies to all aspects of our life..

If we are not willing to make the change, we’re gonna lead the same life every year.. the same shitty relationship – low energy or that idea that remains in your head only.

 

If You Change Nothing, Nothing Will Change.

You want more money? You want a better relationship?
Be willing to change something – add something up.

Get out of that comfort zone..

If you change something in your daily routine, you are actually giving rise to a better future.

Yeah, there’s fear – laziness – rejection – the “what if it doesn’t work” – the “wanting to stay in that comfort zone” because it’s familiar, comfortable..

But, if you wanna be extraordinary, you gotta do it..

I always say, your brain is the most powerful muscle – learn to use it wisely.

Make it believe that you’re ready for change because you’re freaking amazing & you wanna be extraordinary, and just take the Leap!

Go For It.. Everything will fall in place.. If you don’t take the first step & actually send the universe that message “I’m bringing some astonishing changes to my life” , the universe will help you and aligns things for you..

You can have an exceptional life, you can seriously have everything that you have ever wanted..
And, NO – THEY AREN’T JUST WORDS!!

If other people can do it , so why CAN’T you?

You Can. And, You Will

I believe in You πŸ™‚

Do it.. it’s NOW or Never :’)

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Why Justin Baldoni is one of my Idols?

Justin Baldoni: Actor, handsome, sexy, director, husband, dad…..and, it goes on.Β 
But, I’m not here to talk about how handsome he is!Β 

See, I never heard about Justin Baldoni until I started watching Jane The Virgin.
Amazing show! If you haven’t watched it yet, you should!

Chapter Seven

 

So..yeah I started reading about him, following him on every social media sites he is.

He became a crush just like any other celebrity….until he became an Inspiration πŸ™‚

 

Why is he an inspiration, you asked?

  • My Last Days

MY LAST DAYS

CW:MY LAST DAYS! I think this is most important reasons why Justin Baldoni is one of my idols.
For those who don’t know, My Last Days is an inspiring documentary series created & produced by Justin Baldoni, Wayfarer Entertainment with Soul Pancake, where people with terminal illness share their stories & make us believe that we can all make a positive impact in the world.

I followed the story of Zach Sobiech – “You don’t have to find that you’re dying in order to start living”Β 

You can find Zach’s song “Clouds” here:

I have no words about “My Last Days”. All I can say is that it changed my outlook of life.

Happiness is not a limited resource.Β 

  • The APPS – Shout The Good & Belly Bump

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Justin : “We built Shout to be a place where anyone can go to be reminded of why they matter in the world, and to use their voice to shout the good about their friends. Only the good lives on Shout, the rest of the Internet can handle the negativity.”

I’m sad that this app isn’t available in Mauritius!!!

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“Every day you’re pregnant, you’re already kind of missing it,” Baldoni says. “What’s so cool about an app like this is it allows you to capture that moment of that dayβ€”the day you really started showing or whatever it isβ€”and you’ll be able to reference it in a little short movie that you’ll have forever.”

  • The Good 30 : Happiness Movement

Justin Baldoni started the Happiness Movement to make someone happy in 30 seconds.
The #Good30

It doesn’t have to be a big thing πŸ™‚
Just bring a smile!!

  • His Love for Emily Baldoni

The way he respects women πŸ™‚

I really admire this trait. Justin Baldoni is a true gentleman πŸ™‚

  • Maiya

#Dear Maiya
You have a wonderful father.
I follow Justin’s stories on Instagram & Snapchat.
The way he captures everything , every little memories is worth it πŸ™‚

That’s not the only reasons why Justin should be an inspiration.
There’s countless reasons πŸ™‚

 

Just remember Happiness isn’t a limited a reason..

 

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