Feeling lost? Get Yourself Back!

Ever got to a point in life where you felt lost? 
Like, something was missing…and you felt like you were losing yourself? 

Life is so unexpected.
It never goes the way we want. The way we planned it.

Now, I’m not saying that we shouldn’t plan anything in our lives.
Make things happen, but be ready to deal with unexpected stuffs too.

And, sometimes in a moment, life changes.
We get a new job. New work environment.
New relationship comes by.
A new social circle.
It can be anything which just drops out of the universe.

Now, we get so caught up in this “new” thing that just happened to us, that eventually we start to lose ourselves.
This happens because we are trying to adapt to that “new” thing that just happened to us – it’s freaking awesome.. that soulmate love is finally here! Or, my dream job is finally here!

It’s called the honeymoon phase in a new relationship where everything is beautiful.
But, what happened when the phase fades?

The reason why it is important to stand up your ground always.
It’s human nature to get caught up in new stuffs happening around you 🙂

So how do you NOT lose yourself in the process? 

  • You’re responsible for your happiness. Put Yourself First (PYF)


Putting yourself first isn’t selfishness!
It’s Self- Love.

We have only one life.
And, we all deserve the best of happiness.

Always ask yourself this –
“Does it makes me happy? ”
If the answer is no, then don’t fucking do it!

If it’s yes, then Just go for it! And, let the universe take care of the rest! 

  • Don’t let go your “self-love time”. 


It’s normal to get caught up in your new, busy , routine life in the beginning.

But, seriously – Get Your Shit Together when your life has settled down.

Your “me” time? Don’t let it go for anything..
It is so important to have your self-love time every day.

Do what you love every single day of your life 🙂
It doesn’t have to be a big thing.. what do you love?

Just do it!!!

Because, that’s who you are!

  • Be You. Always. 


When you enter a new environment, a new circle of life, it is normal to feel yourself being moulded to this particular environment.
And, along the way you may feel like losing yourself just to adapt to this.

You gotta be comfortable with this –
“People will judge you. They will laugh. Criticize. Make you feel inferior. Or that you’re not good enough.”

When you come across those kinds of people, this is actually the universe telling you that these are not your people who will make you grow.
And, it is at this time that you gotta be yourself more.

Stand up your ground. 
You’re unique. Different. 

But, you know what? That’s what makes you awesome!

The right people will cherish you 🙂




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Thank You 2016, Hello 2017!

2016… in 3 hours it’s gonna be gone!

2016 wasn’t awesome..

It was the year a lot of shits happened, but boy!
Was this the best year ever!

You’ll think am crazy.. how can I label a shitty year as the best year ever?

See if my life would have been normal, usual stuffs, routines, same people, same everything, maybe I would have said I had a good year..

2016 brought me the worst ; 11 months from now, I was already hating this year and wishing it would end..

But, today, as I recall how the year was, I’m happy.. very happy that 2016 came in my life..

If it wasn’t for the shitty stuffs, I would never have grown.

You can’t grow if you don’t encounter change or unexpected challenges..or just shits which dropped out from the sky!

Life is unexpected. And, that’s the beauty of it!
Isn’t it thrilling to think that you have no idea what 2017 is going to bring?
But, whatever is coming you’re gonna live it..

Life is a beautiful experience, and the negative parts of it are here to make you grow, to make you realise your strengths.

It all depends on how you view and perceive your life.

Complain about the shits? or Live the shits & come out of it like a SuperHero?

Live your life ; most people just exist. Don’t be most people.

Every single day should be an adventure.

Anything can change in a second. Anything.
So, don’t plan your coming year.
Live it.

Happy New Year ***
I wish you all happiness..only the best of happiness ***

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You can Have it All

Hey there! My lovely subscribers 🙂
I love Mondays! Do you? You SHOULD!

I wanted to talk about a specific thing today.
Did you know that you can be multi-talented or use your brain in such a way that you can do anything?
See, nothing is impossible. Everything that you say that you can’t do, you can actually do it.
It’s all in your brain.

I said in my previous posts – Your brain is your most strong muscle. Train it well.

So, I was talking to a friend of mine and I love challenging stuffs. I was saying that I wanted to do something more in my life, something which will rack my brain. And she was like, ” but you’re a blogger, you fall in the writing – category, how will you be able to do analytical stuffs?”
And, I was like, “huh? what kind of logic is that?”

Seriously, What the fuck kind of logic is that? 

I do agree with the fact that at some point of life, we all have to choose a specific career path in which we will grow professionally. But, does that mean just because you are an engineer or an investment banker, so you can’t be a photographer? If you are a motivational speaker, you can’t be a doctor as well?
That’s what the society is teaching us?

How many lives we have? One. We haven’t found the Lazarus Pits yet so that I can come back to life and live again.
We have one life. Yet, most people don’t live it fully.

Peeps, you CAN have it all.
Do what you Love. 

Don’t let anyone tell you that you have to stick to only one stuff till you die. Why lead such a boring life just because everyone been doing it?
You can be multi-talented!

People just don’t realise how much there is inside of them.
Discover Yourself. You will be AMAZED!
STOP underestimating your brain – Seriously STOP.

Your brain is powerful and it can do anything.
You can deal with mathematics and be a writer as well. (That’s me!)

Make a list on what you love – what excites you – what makes you alive & just do it!

Yeah, I know there will be FEAR..fear of rejection.. fear of getting out of your comfort zone and trying something new.
Fear? What’s fear? Oh, that’s just the feeling you get when you watch horror pictures.

I love photography. I love capturing moments. I love taking amazing pictures.
But, I’m not a photographer. It’s my personal hobby and it makes me happy.
A week back, I was looking at 500px popular pictures & I got the feeling of posting my pictures on 500px.
So, there it was – The Fear who said, “Neha, you’re not even an amateur photographer & you wanna post your pics among those professional photographers? Don’t do it. They will laugh at you. You will just ridicule yourself on this path.”

So, I agreed with my fear, “True, fear. You’re right. It was a stupid idea, I will just ridicule myself on that platform.” And, it was the end of it.

Yeah, I didn’t say that. I said, “Shut up, Fear. You no longer get to take my decisions for myself.”

I was gonna try. I’ll put my first picture, if I don’t get any response or views I will just remove it. End of Story. But, I need to try first.
And, BOOM!
The views were pouring. My first picture got into the Popular Category.

See, you can Have it All. You Can do whatever you love.
Don’t limit yourself. Don’t restrict your happiness.
Why put boundaries on what you love to do or on who you wanna be?

IF you want to join my photography world, here’s a glimpse on what you will be getting:

You can follow at https://500px.com/neha_lg

Happy Monday 🙂

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Sunday Feeling

You won’t achieve anything with a weak mind.
No matter how much you meditate, visualize and ask the universe to help you, it won’t happen with a weak mind.
Weak minds attract negative beliefs. They attract negative affirmations like:

“I’m not good enough” ; “Maybe I’m not the ideal woman, that’s why he left” ;
“I CAN’T do this”  and the list goes on and on…
And then, you ask the universe why is all this happening to me, help me, get me out of this.
But, it won’t happen.

See, the universe never responds to negative beliefs.
The more you are in the victim stage, the more the universe can’t hear you.

You can call it God, some call it Universe, others the force.
Call it whatever you want ; It will only respond to your positive vibes.

You say to yourself:
“I can’t do this. I won’t be able to do it. I’m scared.”
The universe hears:
“He can’t do it, he’s scared & tired with life – Meaning: he’s not ready for the big promotion I was going to give him because he’s scared. I should give the promotion to that other guy who is awake, very confident.”

I’m talking from experience; I have been in the victim stage & I have achieved nothing.

Nothing is impossible in life. NOTHING!

Your brain is your most powerful muscle. It can be your worst enemy or your biggest strength. 
Train it well. 
You CAN do it! You WILL do it! 
You DESERVE the best! 

Believe that you deserve the best. Believe that you can do it. Then, take actions.
You’ll be amazed how the universe will conspire to give you the best.

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